Lament
"How long, O LORD? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long must I take counsel in my soul and have sorrow in my heart all the day? How long shall my enemy be exalted over me?" (Psalm 13:1-2). The four "how long" questions at the beginning of Psalm 13 give the psalter a vocabulary that too many Christians are afraid to use: the honest, direct, anguished question addressed to YHWH in the middle of real pain. Lament is not a failure of faith, it is an act of faith.
Why Lament Is an Act of Faith
More than one-third of the 150 Psalms are classified as lament psalms, individual or communal complaints addressed directly to YHWH. This proportion in the authoritative prayer-book of Scripture is itself a theological statement: YHWH accepts the complaint, welcomes it, preserves it in Scripture, and models it himself (the divine laments in the prophets, Hosea 11, Jeremiah 12, Isaiah 63-64, are YHWH lamenting the condition of his people).
The act of bringing complaint to YHWH is itself an act of faith: it presupposes that YHWH exists, that YHWH is powerful enough to do something about the situation, that YHWH is the right address for the complaint, and that the relationship between the lamenter and YHWH is real enough to bear the weight of honest speech. The person who does not pray in grief has abandoned YHWH for the silence of despair. The person who laments to YHWH is engaging the relationship even in the darkness.
Walter Brueggemann's analysis (The Psalms and the Life of Faith): lament moves the believer from "orientation" (the settled world of blessing and order) through "disorientation" (the world of suffering and loss that does not fit the settled picture) to "new orientation" (the discovery of YHWH on the other side of the grief). The movement is not linear and is not guaranteed to happen quickly. Lament is the language of the disorientation stage, the honest speech of the person whose settled world has broken.
The Lament Genre, Structure and Components
The individual lament psalm follows a recognizable six-part structure (present in many variations across the Psalms):
(1) Address: calling on YHWH by his covenant name. "O LORD (YHWH)", the covenant name, the name of the one who has made promises. The choice of address is itself a claim: you have made promises; hold them. (2) Complaint: stating the problem directly, often in graphic and honest terms. "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, from the words of my groaning?" (Psalm 22:1). The complaint is specific, emotional, and unfiltered. (3) Confession of trust: despite the circumstances, affirming what is still true about YHWH. "Yet you are holy, enthroned on the praises of Israel. In you our fathers trusted; they trusted, and you delivered them" (Psalm 22:3-4). The confession of trust is not a denial of the complaint, both are simultaneously true. (4) Petition: specific request for YHWH's intervention. "Be not far from me... hasten to my aid!" (Psalm 22:11, 19). The petition names what is needed and asks YHWH to provide it. (5) Vow of praise: commitment to praise YHWH when the deliverance comes. "I will tell of your name to my brothers; in the midst of the congregation I will praise you" (Psalm 22:22). The vow of praise is a faith-act made in the darkness. (6) Praise (sometimes): the psalm sometimes ends with actual praise, either because the deliverance has come or because faith anticipates it. Psalm 13:5-6 moves from "how long" to "I will sing to the LORD, because he has dealt bountifully with me."
Communal laments (Psalms 44, 74, 79, 80, 89) follow similar patterns but include the whole community as the subject of the complaint. Psalm 44:23, "Awake! Why are you sleeping, O Lord? Rouse yourself! Do not reject us forever!" The communal lament is the corporate version of the same honest speech.
Psalm 88, The Darkest Psalm
"O LORD, God of my salvation; I cry out day and night before you. Let my prayer come before you; incline your ear to my cry!" (88:1-2). Psalm 88 is the only psalm in the entire Psalter that ends without resolution, without a vow of praise, without a turn toward trust, without a glimpse of hope. It ends in pure darkness:
"O LORD, why do you cast my soul away? Why do you hide your face from me?... You have caused my beloved and my friend to shun me; my companions have become darkness" (88:14, 18, the final word of the psalm in Hebrew is darkness: choshekh).
The ending is not a literary mistake or an incomplete psalm. It is the authoritative recognition that some seasons of grief are genuinely without visible light, and that even in those seasons, the speech goes to YHWH: "I cry out day and night before you" (88:1). The psalmist does not stop addressing YHWH even when YHWH seems absent. The darkness that is the final word is still a darkness addressed to YHWH.
Psalm 88 is the permission slip for the grief that does not resolve quickly, the depression that does not lift in a moment, the suffering that continues without visible relief. It belongs in Scripture because some people's experience belongs in Scripture. Psalm 88 says: even this is prayer.
Jesus's Lament, The Dereliction Cry
"And about the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud voice, saying, 'Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?' that is, 'My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?'" (Matthew 27:46 / Mark 15:34). The cry from the cross is a citation of Psalm 22:1, the great passion psalm that opens with the dereliction and closes with vindication. Jesus laments.
The theological weight of the dereliction cry: Jesus is not reciting Scripture academically from the cross. He is praying Psalm 22 as the one who is experiencing its opening question from the inside. The God-forsaken cry is real, the one who knew no sin "became sin for us" (2 Corinthians 5:21), and the judgment that sin deserves, the experience of divine absence, is real. The cry is not the cry of despair but of lament: "My God, my God", the address presupposes the relationship even in the moment of its most acute breach.
The fact that Jesus lamenta validates the theology of lament completely: if the Son of God himself prays the dereliction, the language of abandonment and loss is not unfaithful. The complaint addressed to YHWH in the darkness is the most Christlike prayer available to the person in the dark.
Habakkuk, The Prophet Who Argued with YHWH
The book of Habakkuk is one of the most theologically unusual books in the Hebrew prophetic canon: instead of YHWH's word addressed to Israel through the prophet, Habakkuk is the prophet's complaint addressed to YHWH, and YHWH's answers back.
Habakkuk 1:2-4: "O LORD, how long shall I cry for help, and you will not hear? Or cry to you 'Violence!' and you will not save? Why do you make me see iniquity, and why do you idly look at wrong? Destruction and violence are before me; strife and contention arise." This is the opening of the canonical book, not an introduction, not a genealogy, but a complaint. YHWH, you are not doing what you should be doing.
YHWH answers (1:5-11): the Babylonians are coming. YHWH is using them as his instrument of judgment. Habakkuk's second complaint (1:12-2:1): this cannot be right either, you are using a more wicked nation to judge a less wicked nation? "Your eyes are too pure to look at evil; you cannot tolerate wrong" (1:13), how can you use Babylon?
YHWH's second answer (2:2-20): the oracle of the five woes against Babylon, and the declaration "but the righteous shall live by his faith (emunah, אֱמוּנָה, faithfulness, fidelity, trust)" (2:4, the verse quoted by Paul in Romans 1:17, Galatians 3:11, and Hebrews 10:38 as the heart of justification by faith).
Habakkuk 3:17-19, the response that emerges from the lament: "Though the fig tree should not blossom, nor fruit be on the vines, the produce of the olive fail and the fields yield no food, the flock be cut off from the fold and there be no herd in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the LORD; I will take joy in the God of my salvation." Not because the circumstances changed, all the worst scenarios are listed, but because YHWH is still YHWH. This is the fruit of honest lament: not denial, not despair, but hard-won trust.
Lament in the Sanctum
The Sanctum does not offer cheap comfort or forced praise. The tradition of lament, Psalm 88 that ends in darkness, Habakkuk who argues with YHWH, Job who would not confess sins he did not commit, Jesus who cried "my God, my God" from the cross, is the tradition that says: bring the real thing. YHWH can handle the complaint. The address itself is the act of faith.
Ask Dave About Lament
Dave holds the full biblical theology of lament, why lament is an act of faith (presupposes YHWH's existence and power and relationship / Brueggemann orientation-disorientation-new-orientation), the six-part genre structure (address/complaint/trust/petition/vow/praise), communal lament psalms (44/74/79/80/89), Psalm 88 as the only psalm ending in unresolved darkness (choshekh final word / still addressed to YHWH / permission for unresolved grief), Jesus's dereliction cry (Matthew 27:46 / Psalm 22:1 citation / real experience of divine absence / validates lament entirely), and Habakkuk (complaint-and-answer structure / 2:4 righteous-shall-live-by-faith / 3:17-19 Habakkuk's fruit-of-lament: yet-I-will-rejoice).
Ask Dave About LamentSupport the Research
The Sanctum wiki is free and supported by partners.
Partner With the Ministry